Having Sex While Pregnant: Is it Safe?
It is common for couples to wonder whether sex and pregnancy are safe together. Unless your health care provider advises you otherwise, sex during pregnancy is safe for both you and your baby. The baby is protected by the amniotic fluid in the womb, by your abdomen, and by the mucus plug which seals your cervix and helps guard against infections.
When is sex during pregnancy NOT safe?
Sex is safe during pregnancy unless your healthcare provider has indicated that you have a high-risk pregnancy. Although there are few reasons to avoid sex during pregnancy, there are some situations when your health care provider may indicate that sex should be avoided.
These situations include:
- History of premature birth or labor
- History of miscarriage
- If your water has broken
- If you experience unexplained vaginal bleeding or discharge
- If you have placenta previa or a very low-lying placenta
- If you have an incompetent cervix or if it has dilated
- If you or your partner has a sexually transmitted disease
It is also important to note that we are speaking about vaginal sex here. Anal sex is not considered safe during pregnancy and should be avoided. To read more about the risks this can bring into the equation, read our article on it here.
What changes are expected during pregnancy?
Sex and pregnancy can still happen together and your usual practices may not have to change. However, because of the different changes that occur in your body, you may want to make some changes to make things more comfortable.
Here is some information to consider when thinking about sex during pregnancy:
- Exhaustion, hormonal fluctuations, tender breasts and self-consciousness about weight gain can bring your sex drive to a halt. Sometimes you may need rest to regain energy – give yourself a break.
- The common missionary position may become uncomfortable and warrant considering other positions such as side by side or with you on top.
- As your breasts increase in size, they may become more tender or sore. Encourage your partner to explore other parts of your body and to find other ways to caress you. With the changes in your breast, it is best to avoid direct nipple stimulation.
- There is increased blood flow to the pelvic area that can lead to engorgement of the genitals and heighten the sensation; however, for some women, this can be more uncomfortable.
Unless your healthcare provider tells you otherwise, you and your partner should be able to enjoy sex during your pregnancy. Pay attention to your body and make adjustments so that you can enjoy the experience to the fullest.
Compiled using information from the following sources:
Planning Your Pregnancy and Birth Third Ed. The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, Ch. 5.
Mayo Clinic Guide To A Healthy Pregnancy Harms, Roger W., M.D., et al, Introduction.