What is your name (or a name you'd like to be called)? I'm Jo, DH is Andy and we are both 31.
How did you come up with your username? We have been married 10 years and people were always asking "So, when are you two going to start a family??" Finally, I was like, no matter how much we would like it to be otherwise...we ARE a family even if there are only ever two of us
How long have you been TTC? actively 2 1/2 years
How did you find out about APA? A friend of a friend of a friend
Anything else you'd like to add? I have been a silent observer on this site for ages :roll: I just never knew really how to jump in and reading other's experiences here has helped me through all of this. After trying and testing and testing and trying, we were told this January that it would take a miracle for us to get pregnant without IVF/ICSI. I wasn't really producing mature eggies and Andy has low count, low morph., and low mot.. We prayed and struggled with this decision, but finally came to the conclusion that we wouldn't feel closure on this chapter until we at least gave it a try. We have time to work on adoption after all, but my eggs aren't getting any younger!! So, our target date is August 9th and we were just waiting on AF this month to start the scans and bloodwork. I actually thought we had gotten our miracle this month because I had no AF symptoms and was 4 days late as of this morning, which NEVER happens (I'm kinda like clockwork). Anyway, my euphoric bubble of hope burst at lunch when AF reared her ugly head out of nowhere. I'm disappointed, but I keep reminding myself that we have a plan!!
Well, sorry to go on and on. I have just kept silent on this issue for SO long (not even our family knows) that it all came spilling out today. Thank you for listening.
xoxo
Jo