So today I when in for my first visit and low and below my OB is no longer at the practice When I called on tuesday to make the appt no one told me he was not there Well since I was there already I ask which one of the OBs will be seeing me and was told the name which pissed me off even more has I know dead people who has better bedside manners than him SO since I wanted to be seen and start on the plan that was set up by my previous OB, I grinned and said ok let's try again. I should have walk out instead because this pieces of crap made me feel like I was begging him to see me. He walked into the room with a med student didn't even ask me if it was ok nor introduce the young man to me. then he proceeded to ask me if I really wanted another baby because I'm of advance maternal age with a long history of different health issues and that even if the pregnancy gets pass the window of miscarriage my baby may end up with different types of abnormalities so why do this. The nurse was looking at me and shaking her head at me because I was about to go off on him after I picked up my mouth off the ground:headband: I swallowed really hard and proceeded to tell him nicely that if I was one of his little jewish ladies he wouldn't have did and said what he just did and I was very offended therefore please give me a referral to the nearest perinatologist practice so that I can be seen by people who really cared about me and want to help me. He said ok and walked out of the room. The nurse said she was sorry for his behavior and I told her not to apologize for him because it was not her fault he was a AH. She personally looked up the number for the peri and gave it to me because she said she is not sure if he will write the referral. I don't believe that me even took time to read my chart or else he would know that I was trying very hard to get and stay pregnant. And that I really want my baby regardless of abnormalities. I'm still so mad.