so lastnight dd was refusing to wear a diaper so i let her go bare bum and put the potty out. after about 30 minutes i told her to sit on the potty and try to pee and she went!!! she used the potty and had zero accidents from 5pm till bedtime (8pm) then this morning she has already pooped and peed in the potty! hoping this is a training success.
but i probably just jinxed myself by sharing the good news on here. lol.

the vent: sil is making me look bad..... she has twins that are 1 month older than ds, a full time job, keeps her house cleaner than i do and she is going to graduate with her MASTERS in a month. i can barely keep a clean house..... thats all.