Though I don't fuss about it aloud is when I express my desire about working outside the home and I actually had an interview yesterday sometimes I hear "Well maybe its in God's plan for you not to work". I have not worked since January 2008 when I was about 3 months PG with Cody. I understand for whatever reason the timing has not been right for me and I've grown to accept how my life is but, it does not take away my desire to work even part time when James or family is helping care for them. I guess I find it sort of rude because I would never say that to anyone it would be like telling my friend who has to work "Well its God's Plan". She would probably whack me upside my head if I told her that.