I am utterly confused on the fact of whether or not I am pregnant. Please, do not shame me. Please, do not demean me. I had been on birth control for over 3 months and due to financial short comings, I could no longer afford it. I was on a 28-day cycle with my period falling on the last Wednesday of the month. I used condoms along with the pill. 3 days after I finished my previous month of birth control, my long-term boyfriend would not take no for an answer when it came to unprotected sex. After denying him at least five times, I gave in when he would not stop pushing. He ejaculated ON my vagina, NOT INSIDE, however, I quickly washed it off with hot, soapy water. My period was supposed to start yesterday (12/25/13) and it has yet to start. I know that sometimes when a woman ceases taking birth control, her period can tend to be late. Could I be pregnant? Or did the soap kill the sperm? Thank you for your time and your feedback is appreciated!