Ok, so first appt was today. It was with the Nurse Practitioner. All she did was the basic pap, and pelvic exam. When she was doing the manual, feel around exam she said "oh" I thought, don't say things like that. She said it seems I may be further along than I think I am (which is 8.1 weeks according to her, based on LMP, but she thinks I might be further) They took lots of blood, YUCK! and unfortunately that's gonna cost me about $1000 since I have no insurance, but I'll figure it out. Ultrasound is January 2nd. Normally they would do it at 12 weeks, but she wants to see if her suspicion is right. So now, to decide whether or not to tell the family at Christmas.