DH and I started dating 8 years ago when we were seniors in high school. We were married 4 years ago in 2009 when we were both 21. I wanted babies right after graduating college but DH...not so much. Our first year of marriage was rocky and counseling was a savior to our marriage. Because of us still getting stronger from that time, DH still wanted to wait to start a family. I got off BC pills in February 2013 because I had been on the pills for about 5 years and I wanted to make sure my cycles would be regular. DH finally told me he was ready to try but wanted to wait till the end of summer 2013. Our marriage is amazing and we are stronger than ever. I convinced him to at least start trying in early July advising that most of the women in my family can be trying for a few months or more before conceiving...well me not so much. Lol. We conceived in early July with the first try. July 18 I got a bfp! But the line was very very faint. On July 20 I woke up with cramps and had a bad feeling. I went to the bathroom and noticed bright red spotting. The spotting got heavier and started clotting and cramping more. I went to the er where they confirmed I had lost the baby. We were pretty upset but knew that there is a reason for everything. We were going to wait a month before trying again but still DTD in August, just not proactively when I thought I was ovulating. August 18th I woke up realizing that I was a day late for my period. I had one test left from the month before so I figured, what the heck. I took the test and bam! Right away 2 dark lines. I was shocked! I ran downstairs and showed DH right away who was pretty convinced with this test that we may have a viable pregnancy. I made the appt for 8 weeks but did have spotting the first couple weeks, but no cramps. Either way I was so stressed and have continued to be uneasy this pregnancy. Thankfully the last 2 days little girl has been kicking!! she still doesn't have a name yet but so far I'm trying convince DH to say yes to Evelyn Rose.
Next appt is next Thursday the 19th. I don't know if my big us is this appt or next. I hope it's this one, I want to see the 4d ultrasound!!!