So my life is beginning to remind me of a Lifetime movie! Last I updated y'all the birth mom had changed her mind. The rest of the story isn't on fb, so if you're friends with me there don't mention anything please!
A few days later I was contacted by someone we know about adopted her baby that's due in January. Apparently she had an affair, got pregnant, and is trying to work in out with her husband. They have 2 kids and he doesn't want to raise another man's child. We talked about it and decided to go with it and see what happens. I sent my lawyer all the info on the birth parents.
Two days later, our original birth mom starts contacting me. She's not sure she really wants to raise him. We message back and forth a few days and last night she decided she does want us to adopt him. I really hope she doesn't change her mind again, but we'll see.
We're cautiously excited! I'd love to end up with both kids! Who knows what will happen though!