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    We found out last night that the birth mom changed her mind and wants to raise her son. We have the oldest of hers and the father of the second is being raised by the father. We're devastated. For 8 months she's been telling us she's sure this is what she wants. We had a shower scheduled for this Sunday and have spent a fortune getting ready. My mom is retiring and moving to take care of him when I went back to work. I have no idea how to tell DD.

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    I am so sorry. How devastating. Big hugs.
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    I am just heartbroken for you. I'm so so sorry.

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    I am so sorry and heartbroken for you over here, too.
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    I'm so sorry.

    Jennifer, 35, DH 36

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    Oh no - I am so very sorry -

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    How devastating for all of you. I am so sorry.




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    Oh Sarah noooo ...this is devastating news ! I am heartbroken for all of you !!

    Really really praying that somehow there is still hope and she just has cold feet...that she will remember all the reasons she chose your family in the first place.

    Keeping you in my thoughts, and praying desperately for the whole situation ♥
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    So very sorry for your family
    Julie, DH: W, DS: Mason, GGB Trips Amelia, Ellanor & Noah
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    Quote Originally Posted by kellyowens View Post
    Really really praying that somehow there is still hope and she just has cold feet...that she will remember all the reasons she chose your family in the first place.
    This is what we're hoping. Just VERY upset that she would even have the nerve to do this. It's heart breaking.

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    Love you, cousin.

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    I'm so sorry!
    Jennifer


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    So so sorry

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    I'm so very sorry.

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    So sorry!!

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    I'm so sorry. That really is devastating. Maybe she will change her mind again, but what a rollercoaster to go through. Ugh, I hate this for you.

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    I am so sorry.




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    I'm so sorry Sarah. I can't imagine how devastated you are.
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    I'm sorry you guys are having to go through this heartbreak!

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    I can't even imagine, I am so sorry

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    I am so very sorry!

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    I am so sorry to hear that!!
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    Oh no, I'm so very sorry.



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    I'm so sorry

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    Man, that sucks...I'm so sorry. I didn't know you guys told your DD already, I thought you were waiting until it was a sure thing. I'm sorry, I hope she takes it ok. And I really hope the birth mom changes her mind back.

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    I am really sorry to hear that it really sucks. I hope that she'll change her mind again.

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    I am so sorry mama.. I pray that she changes her mind and if not I pray for peace for you and your family.

    I am so sorry..

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    I'm so sorry sweetie! Just sending you all the hugs I can right now.
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