So we just told my in-laws that I'm pregnant and they're already making comments about how badly we need to get in to a church and such. My husband and I are both atheists. Granted, he just officially came out and said so to his parents (though I don't know how they didn't already know) about a year ago. Anyways, my question is, how do you deal with politely telling them not to brainwash your child? I feel like if we don't say something soon, and give it a lot of time to sink in, it's going to be much harder later on.
I'm at a loss. DH just wants to leave it alone and let the kid figure it out for themselves, but I don't know that I agree. Any suggestions?