So before we started having kids, DH said once we were done he would get a vasectomy. He said it would be easier for him to get it done, less invasive, less side effects, etc...made sense. So, here we are, twins will be here next week and he has made every excuse in the world not to do it, to do it later, blah blah blah...

Well today when I was signing consents for my csection next week the surgical coordinator was trying to sell me on getting my tubes tied. I just don't feel it is the best thing to do, we agree we are done completely, I just worry about the side effects of messing with things in there. I don't want to end up with whackadoodle periods, awful hormonal changes, or anything like that. Also from what I have read so far the vasectomy is more effective and there is risk of ectopic pregnancy with the tubal ligation.

I mean it does make total sense to do it while they are in there, but I also don't want to make a rush decision on this either.

Thoughts?