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    After my husband ejaculates in my vagina, i sometimes have not reached an orgasm. So he insists on giving me one. I guess what i want to know is that is it okay if a woman climaxes after her husband has climaxed?? will it put any hindrances in conceiving? The gynae said i have PC so we have a really small window in the month when i can be ovulating.
    Any answer???

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    Oh my, that's a toughie...I must admit I never thought of this! I just wanted to say good luck!!
    As to asking your doctor, perhaps you can call the doctor's office and ask that way? I know for me it would be easier to say it over the phone. Just an idea

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    I actually read or saw something that stated it actually helps the odds if you climax with the sperm in the vagina, that during climax the muscle spasms or whatever cause the cervix to dip into the pooled sperm and that helps the swimmers get where they need to be. I am no expert, just something I heard on the topic once.

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    I've heard that too...that orgasm actually helps but that it's not necessary .

    (((Hugs)))...sorry to hear about the pc , praying you get a bfp soon !!
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    I've heard that as well. So it sounds like you won't be hurting anything, and may actually be helping! Which is a good thing, because who wants to complain about a DH that insisits on that!? Good luck with TTC, I hope you stick around, and I hope you get a BFP soon!
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    Quote Originally Posted by TripMomma View Post
    I actually read or saw something that stated it actually helps the odds if you climax with the sperm in the vagina, that during climax the muscle spasms or whatever cause the cervix to dip into the pooled sperm and that helps the swimmers get where they need to be. I am no expert, just something I heard on the topic once.
    That's what I've heard as well!
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    That's what I've heard too!
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    If you watch this video, starting at 5:00 somewhat answers your question and reinforces what some of the ladies above have said: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_q-wSnDclVo. Good luck! When DH and I were TTC the first time, we'd work together to time our orgasms so that I came fairly soon after he did. I don't know if that necessarily helped us conceive, but we sure had fun!
    Me: 35, DH: 44, DS: 4



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