What do you do if/when your daughter says her vag hurts? Do they let you inspect? Mine say it occasionally...I am sure it's from inadequate wiping. I try to get them to wipe really well with a baby wipe and put some of the baby's cream on themselves. If I do it they get all squirmy and ticklish. They are 4 and 6 and I don't want to feel like I am "forcing" myself on them you know?

DD2 is complaining currently. She wont let me near it. She says it's red (I haven't seen it yet). They take showers during the week and baths on the weekend. I'd rather try to inspect and help things than bring her to a doc to do it.....I do worry about infection. I have not noticed any discharge and she has not reported any.