Feeling sad

[missmc]

About having my last baby. Even though she was unplanned and I had a very interesting pregnancy, I'm sad that I'll never have another baby. I don't want to be pregnant again and I have no desire to have another child but I can't help feeling this way. Dh has his vasectomy scheduled for 3/20 (so he can stay home and watch March Madness). When I went to the hospital to meet with a lactation consultant, we met on the L&D floor and it reminded me of all my deliveries and the time I spent in the hospital with someone waiting on me and helping me with the baby. When I thought dd1 was my last, I didn't feel this way. Maybe it's because we are taking the measures to make sure it doesn't happen again. Anyone else feel this way?

[Linzo]

I am having a bad bout of baby blues. I don't know if this is my last or not but the thought of the pregnancy being over makes me sad. It started when we got home yesterday. I am having alot of sadness/crying and anxiety.

I can totally understand where you are coming from. It's sad to me when things change and times flies! I want to hold onto every moment!

[ozzy]

Oh my, I could have written this post, even the part about dh scheduling a vasectomy to watch march madness!! Haha

Except, he hasn't scheduled it. We haven't even discussed it since Fletcher was born. Well, all I have said is that I would easily have another. Not sure what his thoughts are at all. Who knows if he is going to book it. He originally had it scheduled for October, but asked him to wait until baby boy was here safely. So he cancelled and hasn't really mentioned it since.

It makes me so sad to think I will never have another baby. I guess I could be a surrogate again if I really wanted to. I love being pregnant, labor and delivery.

So, my point is, I'm right there with you!

[Babidol]

We haven't decided if this was our last and won't for a while. Butive been another mess since she turned a month old Thursday. It's going too fast. I want her to be little for much longer. I could absolutely have another but we need to wait 3 years again since daycare is so expensive. Idbe 35, him 38....just feeling our age and finances

[jessie07113]

I am feeling just the opposite! Thank god I'm done! Well at least that's how I feel right now! I am finding it very difficult going from 1 kid to 2 and I am Exhausted! I definitely won't miss being pregnant! I want my husband to go get a vasectomy but he won't, he says he may want more kids.