We've been noticing the last few visits that Nathan does NOT want to go to his other grandma. He very readily and happily goes to his daddy, but he runs from Grandma. A couple of weeks ago, DH and I dropped him off for his visit. When daddy and grandma walked up, DH got out of the car and put his arms out for Nathan. Nathan saw his other grandma outside the car and dove into my lap. DH had to pull him out, but then Nathan saw his daddy and went right to daddy with no problem. Yesterday, DH dropped him off and it was just grandma. Nathan cried and pitched a fit, but of course DH handed him off and then left -- I mean, he had no choice, ya know? It breaks my heart.