yes. another one. lol
dd is turning one soon! her b-day is the day before easter
on the day she was born dh's uncle passed away (after a battle with cancer)
i want to have a party for dd.
dh's aunt wants to have an anniversary of her dh's passing family gathering thats seperate from easter. so they want to have 2 big family gatherings. then theres my parents that go out of town to my brothers house for easter (we no longer gather together for easter) so what do i do?
i want to have a b-day party for her the saturday after her b-day so i can be selfish and have it be just be me, dh ds and dd on her actual b-day (a saturday)
mil wants to have the big family easter on saturday her b-day and another gathering of just her kids/grandkids on easter sunday, and dh's sisters b-day is the second so mil will want to have a dinner for her b-day...
when would you plan your childs first b-day? dh said to just forget it because theres too much going on and you don't have first b-day parties for a second child.... (ds got a party for both his first and his second b-day)
and by party i mean lunch or dinner with cake and ice cream.
what would you do?
(i would prefer to see her eat her smash cake with just me, ds, dd, and dh. dd would definitely like that better too. we did it with ds and it was fun, when we did a second smash cake at his party he threw a fit and cried alot instead of having fun with it and i think it was because of so many people watching him.)