KUP! I'm frustrated for you about the genetics results.
Thanks ladies. It is very frustrating not knowing those results. On a lighter note, I poas this morning and got a BFN!!!!!! I am so happy. Gah, that sounds terrible to be happy that I'm not pg, since I want another baby so bad.
I get it. Glad you can rest easy with that. Now here's to hoping for results soon! Hugs!
Just a quick update on me: I still have not heard back from the genetic center. I am very unhappy about that. But, AF ARRIVED LASTNIGHT !!!!!!! I am so relieved, to say the least.
Phew! Time to enjoy a glass of wine ;)
We stopped in the office of the OB I had with the trio and it was a great visit. He was addament about tying my tubes with the c/s and offered to pull a favor to get the big snip done for DH. He's stated all along that he's worried that about the strain of my pregnancies on my uterus & that it can't take much more. I mentioned today that we wanted to try once more and he smiled and said "Bring it on". Dh was so relieved. Ob is very much a plan for the worst and hope for the best and he's super serious (like the L&D nurses are kind of afraid of him) and he wasn't joking when he said it so now we're all geared up to try in August. It was such a relief to get the ok from him since he knows how everything looked with the high risk delivery.
Yay Julie! That's great news!
I just ordered another batch of BC. I have no idea when or if we'll try again, and I have a pretty good peace about it all. DH and I talked last night about this place we're at now of waiting, and he reminded me that with every big decision God has always given us a clear wham bam in your face sign. It's happened throughout our entire time together and they've always been the right choices for our family. So until we have some more clarity, I'll be in this waiting stage ;)
I got some results today. FINALLY! Mine and dhs blood results were normal. Dh doesn't have anything genetically wrong like they were thinking. They are STILL working on Tanner though. I feel somewhat better, but still have no idea what could've been wrong with him. :/ I'm ready for this nightmare to end.
Very glad to hear your results came back normal! Hoping you get your results from Tanner soon. Sorry this has taken so long!
Thanks ladies. I'm still anxious to see what they say Tanner had. That'll be our answer as to whether or not we TTC again.
Hi ladies! Sorry, been quiet lately, lots stressing DH recently, so I've been trying to keep him centered. I ordered all of my meds a couple of weeks ago and they have shipped! I think it will really seem real once I see all of those vials (100+!). I've also been having some fun with planning our trip, and got lots of new bikinis, beach clothes, and luggage. After $3500 worth of meds and $6000 for the cycle, a few hundred $ for some fun things doesn't seem like that much!
I hope that all is well with you and that you are staying toasty-warm this winter!
I believe I will call and bug them again today to see if there are any new results. I don't know if these people are really that busy, if they're finding more and more wrong with Tanner and are having to keep doing more testing, or if they are just that slack. Other people on here have had genetic testing on their LO's and it didn't take anywhere near this long.
That does seem strange, it's been quite a while.
Mandy...he is cuuuute!
I got my meds today! I expected a bunch of huge boxes for spending almost $4000, but they arrived in 2 very small boxes. I am so relieved that they are here-shipping and delivering mail in my town is such a huge headache. I have a custom bridesmaid dress that was sent to my town, returned without delivery, and is now going in circles around southern California. So frustrating! But I am excited to see the meds-it seems much more real now!
I am proud to say I'm back to waiting to TTC. I thought for sure I was at the end of the TTC journey. But after my appts this weeks, I actually have alot of hope again. I go to that other specialist on the 28th to get his opinion on if there's anything else we can do to be able to have a healthy baby. Both my MFM and OB said to go ahead but although I love and value their knowledge and opinions I wanted a third opinion. My drs thought it was a very good idea. Anything to put my mind at ease. So they set me up an appt with supposedly, the BEST Reproductive Endocrinologist in the state. He's won all these awards by making the impossible possible, so we're gonna see what he says about me. So I'm anxiously awaiting that visit with him. I hope he has good news for me like the other two did. We'll see.
I think it's great you have that hope again and a third opinion coming soon. I think it's even better that he's such a great RE! Can't wait to hear how that appt goes!
Thanks Kelly. Just wondering, are there any questions you ladies can think of, that I should ask the RE when I see him? I want to be prepared.
Today is the day to see the RE. Prayers please!!! I will update when I get home. My appt is at 1:15.
Last edited by babypayne; 02-28-2013 at 07:18 AM.
How did it go, babypayne?