Over the summer DD1 was giving me such a hard time brushing her hair. I told her that meant it was time to get it cut. Nothing drastic, but just enough that it was more manageable. I also switched brushed from a regular flat brush to a rounded one with smaller bristles and for some reason that seemed to make more of a difference than the length. I would maybe have her get a few inches cut off just so it is easier to deal with. Good luck!
Growing fast... DD1 (6) & DD2 (4)
Forever loved, forever missed... Twin Girls with us for 19w3d 6/12/06