
Originally Posted by
pepperlru
As a former music teacher (strings and choir, as well as classes for young children) I agree with the above. Music Together and other unstructured "singing and movement" classes are great for preschoolers and tons of fun. Around 5 or 6, some children have enough dexterity to start piano lessons, or more structured singing classes. A few children will be able to handle another instrument, like violin or guitar, but for most kids it is better to wait until 3rd or 4th grade for those (exception would be a child who shows a lot of musical ability coupled with manual dexterity and interest).
Aside from parent participation classes, tot choirs, etc., there are a lot of things you can do with your child at home to encourage an ear for (and love of) music and rhythm.
-- Play music every day -- all different styles. Classical, world music from all traditions, country, pop. Get her ear accustomed to hearing and grooving with lots of different rhythmic and tonal structures, and talk about how the music sounds, what instruments might be making those sounds, how the music makes her feel.
-- Sing songs every day with your child. It doesn't matter if you don't think you have a "good" voice. Sing out! Have fun with it. Learn different kinds of songs -- motion songs like the Hokey Pokey, lullabies, silly songs, lots of folk songs.
-- Dance! Young kids really like using props, like ribbons, scarves or streamers (make great ones with a few colors of paper streamers, about 5 feet long, taped to a popsicle stick). They also like keeping a balloon in the air to the music. Encourage the child to close her eyes and move in the way the music makes her feel, or wave her scarf or streamer to the music.
-- Instruments for kids to play music on at home are great -- a little keyboard, xylophone, harmonica, wooden or penny whistle, and especially lots of rhythm instruments. Let her experiment with the sounds. Encourage her to sing along. It doesn't matter what it sounds like - it's all about the expression. Play rhythm games, like clapping hands or rhythm sticks to music (either while singing or to recorded music). Starting around age 2, the "echo" game is really fun: You each have a set of rhythm sticks, a shaker or just hands to clap. You hit out a simple rhythm, and the child follows you. Sing songs that have rhythmic parts, like "BINGO," using rhythm sticks or shakers. You can make shakers at home with plastic Easter eggs -- put in a little scoop of rice or beans, close and tape around the seam. You can make other rhythm instruments at home too, like big shakers or rainmakers out of plastic water bottles, rhythm sticks out of craft dowels, drums from empty oatmeal canisters. I would recommend, though, investing a few dollars in some nicer rhythm instruments if you can. Nice wooden rhythm sticks are only a few dollars a pair, and they're so great to have (get several sets). A sturdy, real drum - like a buffalo or bodhran drum - is good too. Wooden tamborines, xylophones, etc. will always sound better than plastic and will encourage your child to play them (although a metal xylophone, called a glockenspiel, also makes a nice sound).