So dbf's brother has a daughter who will be four next month. He is a very good dad (I would never say otherwise) and he does what he can to support his family. However, he is the type to do anything he can to keep the attention on him (not desperately but if something doesn't go his way, he throws a fit). Anyway, so they have been planning to get married next year and have been saying they wouldn't be having anymore kids for a few years. I asked Greg before we told family what he thought his brother would say or do when the attention is not ALWAYS on his daughter anymore. His response was "I've waited 30 years for the right person, if that bothers him, oh well". We just got a call from his brother asking what we thought of his gf getting her IUD taken out and trying for another baby. -____-
My response is, they're Gonna do what they want so why does it matter what we think. But in reality... It really bothers us!
Dbf sent a text to him and said "having a baby was something really important to me, I waited 30 years. You guys are great parents and its up to you what you do, but remember how you guys felt when you got to go through all of this" I think Greg handled this really well . Would you have been honest if it really bothered you? Or be happy for them regardless?