Same... use flushable toddler wipes and have them lean forward so I can get in there and get a good wipe. For DD1 who is nearly 5, when we were working on her wiping herself I would have her wipe 2x with toilet paper and then follow up with a toddler wipe to make sure she was clean. I pretty much do that for DD2 as well... use reg. tp first and follow up with one wipe. We have city sewage, I think if you have a septic tank it might not be advisable to use the todder wipes, not positive though.
Growing fast... DD1 (6) & DD2 (4)
Forever loved, forever missed... Twin Girls with us for 19w3d 6/12/06