DD will NOT sit down without a fight in her car seat - either the one in my vehicle or in DH's. Sometimes distraction works - an Elmo video or crackers. But a few times now, NOTHING has worked and we've had to eventually wrestle her into her seat (i.e. we were at day care for over an hour trying to get her to sit down so we could take her home), which results in a very upset toddler, not to mention me feeling like the meanest Mommy on Earth.
In a moment of stupidity, I turned her seat FFing, but came to my senses and turned it back RFing a few days later - she still did it FFing. She stands in her seat and gets hysterical if you try to get her to sit.
So, does anyone have any tips? A snack and/or Elmo only work about 50% of the time.