I think this is a constant struggle when you have two, close in age, same sex, siblings. I have 2 girls 22 months apart. It's hard because my older DD constantly needs new stuff... clothes, shoes, bigger bikes and there is always one waiting for DD2. Now that they are a little older I'll ask for stuff that gets used up a lot for DD2... like new play doh, art supplies (Stickers, glitter glue, paper), new books. Sometimes she'll get a new stuffed animal or babydoll for just her. It's hard though.
Growing fast... DD1 (6) & DD2 (4)
Forever loved, forever missed... Twin Girls with us for 19w3d 6/12/06