
Originally Posted by
Babidol
I totally understand your hesitation. But at the same time it will give you your answer. I know they have to tell you the possible side effects....but they also tell us those same risks in the first tri, the possibility of having a 36 weeker or a plus term baby. If you are terribly worried about the chance of miscarriage why not wait another 6-8 weeks when you hit viability and have it done then? I now it's not optimal to have a 24 or 26 weeker but the chances of them surviving are far superior to now.
Hugs Momma. I know this decision has to be weighing heavily on your heart and mind.