I was just thinking that maybe I would like to have some reminder of the three babies that I lost - maybe a necklace. I'm also thinking about what I would like to have in the necklace. I can't decide if I want to do their expected birthstones or the birth stones of the months that we lost them. I do tend to think of them as the baby that we would have had in their expected birth month. I'm not sure what I should do but expect to have some rough days soon as the first one that I lost was due September 12th - so one week from today.

What types of things have you all done?