Help.!!! Am I pregnant?

[Kara_Hibler]

Okay i am 14, and before you start saying things like "you shouldn't be having sex" and "your to young" please just help me out first. I know I am too young but the area I live in I just wanted to fit in and fell under pressure. Last month, in July, I had sex twice on the 17th. He did not ejactulate in me but he did outside then sort of wiped it off and stuck it back in, my period was suppose to come August 4th but still has not and I am 12 days late. I doubt I am pregnant. But i am scared because my period is late and I have been having some pregnancy symptoms, such as, mild cramping every now and then, increased fatigue, more headaches and increased urination. Please tell me what you think. Thanks

[HisWifeHerMom]

Missed period can happen if your under a lot of stress...You need to speak your mother, firstly to test, get to the doctor, Birth control, and maybe think about not needing to fit in, YOU are who are, never let anyone change that. Trying to fit in can get you into something alot worse. TRUST into your parents they are there to help and protect you.

[hotpinkmomma0811]

He could have had pre-ejaculation. There is always a chance without protection to be pregnant. I would get a test and talk to your parents regardless of the outcome.

[ZsaZsa]

I think you can get free pregnancy tests at planned parenthood and birth control. I don't condone that your having sex, but since you are you need to use birth control and possibly condoms. You will need to use condoms for month anyways before the birth control will take effect.
If you really had sex because of peer pressure pls be assured you are worth more than that. Find an adult you can talk to in Real Life. Take care of yourself!

[MissPrego]

Firstly I think it's a real possibility that you could be pregnant. It only takes one sperm to reach the egg and if he ejaculated and then reinserted his penis it could have had semen on it. The dollar store has cheap tests you could use to be sure. I want to remind you that there are a lot worse things that getting pregnant from having unprotected sex like contracting a STD which can kill you. You already know that your too young to be having sex and are doing it for all the wrong reasons so there is no point telling you that. All I can say is if you are going to do it protect your self and respect your body. Don't allow anyone else to pressure you to do anything you do want to do. I wish you the best of luck!

[mla]

Can you talk to your mom? If you don't think you can talk to her, is there an aunt or another adult you could go to for help?

Based on the timing of sex, I think there's a real possibility that you're pregnant. You need to test, and if you're not pregnant (which I *really* hope you're not), get yourself on the pill and always use a condom. Always.

[mother of seven]

i does sound like your pregnant i would ask some one for help older sibling, aunt, cousin, teacher. i'm not going to say your to young but i will say only do what is right for you not your friends if you are pregnant please join a due date room we will help if we can being pregnant for the first time is scary no matter how old you are good luck let us know if you need any more help