Hello all. I am hopeful that I will find some words of wisdom and support here. I am 25 years old and my husband and I have been trying to conceive for about 8 months. I was regular for 15 months prior to attempting to conceive and for the last 5 months I have not been having a cycle. I was wondering if it is possible to conceive if I am not having a cycle? Also, I am attempting to lose weight to make it easier to conceive. I would say I am 20lbs overweight. My doctor is pushing us to start hormones and I am really wanting to know what is "normal" for people who has struggled to conceive. I have several friends who spent 12 days "trying" and were pregnant, obviously that is not us. Any words of wisdom?