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ok so on day 17 of my cycle my bf and i had a condom fall off...way before its time. the first couple of days after i had some cramping and tired feeling in my lower abdomen...yesterday i started naseau couldnt eat most of the day then had to have a chicken finger grinder n fries...today...naseau is still coming and going and my nipples are extremely tender im trying to convince myself that these are all just psychological....its too early to test as im not due til the 22 any thoughts ladies???
Do you have a 28-day cycle? If so, you probably ovulated before the condom incident. The egg doesn't last more than a day after ovulation, so you would be fine if you ovulated on schedule in a 28-day cycle. Also, did he ejaculate into the condom, or without? Was it a spermicidal condom? That makes a difference. Early pregnancy symptoms are often identical to PMS symptoms, and they are easy to talk yourself into. Food cravings and sore breasts/nipples are common PMS symptoms. Food cravings in pregnancy don't usually start this early. Also, implantation takes 6-10 days, so you wouldn't normally feel symptoms until your period is almost due.
Augusta (38), Jeff (33),
and 3 rescued fur-babies Chancey the boxer mix(10), Tuck the malamute (2), and Jake the kitty who thinks he's a dog (1 year old!)
normally my cycle is a little longer than 28 days...29 to 30 i think....no way to know if he was in or out at the time...we didnt notice until after....could very well be that im just stressing because the relationship is so new...only a couple months in...Originally Posted by ootus973
Do you have a 28-day cycle? If so, you probably ovulated before the condom incident. The egg doesn't last more than a day after ovulation, so you would be fine if you ovulated on schedule in a 28-day cycle. Also, did he ejaculate into the condom, or without? Was it a spermicidal condom? That makes a difference. Early pregnancy symptoms are often identical to PMS symptoms, and they are easy to talk yourself into. Food cravings and sore breasts/nipples are common PMS symptoms. Food cravings in pregnancy don't usually start this early. Also, implantation takes 6-10 days, so you wouldn't normally feel symptoms until your period is almost due.
If your cycle is normally 30 days, you probably ovulated around day 15, but there's no way to be positive. Ovulating around day 17 would be pretty late. You would know of he was wearing the condom when he ejaculated because there would have been fluids inside of it. If it was a spermicidal condom, that greatly reduces the chances that you could be pregnant, even with spillage. Stress can make your period late, so keep that in mind. Also, if you test the day it's due and get a negative, you're most likely not pregnant. False negatives are very rare.
From this point on, I'd suggest spermicidal condoms and a spermicidal lube at the very least. Please get on some form of birth control, unless you're physically unable. It wouldn't be fair to you, your new boyfriend, or your families to have a baby this soon.
Augusta (38), Jeff (33),
i have a 28 to 30 day cycle i o any where from cd 12 to cd 20 this cycle which i did get pregnant i o'ed on cd 18 so i would want to test i got a + 11 to 13 DPO best of luck
9/9/12 8 wks HB 166 9/17/12 10wks HB 176 10/2/12 12wks HB 167 10/16/12 14wks HB 156 10/30/12 16wks HB 146
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