Maddox is 4.5. He has been "potty trained" since he was 3. While he has gone through periods of accidents in the past it's been nothing like this. He is having at least 2-3 accidents a day now. And it's not just a little like he couldn't get to the bathroom in time, it's full blown peeing his pants. I am so over this. We've tried everything we could think of, reward chart, positive reinforcement, flat out bribery. It's just not clicking. When I ask him why it doesn't phase him, he just stares past me, and says i'm sorry. DH is to the point of starting to take stuff away and wanting to give time outs. Even if I make him go every 30 mins it is still a struggle cause he doesn't always have to go. Then he'll go in his pants and it doesn't even bother him until I tell him to go to the bathroom again and he tries to hide his underwear and pants from me. I have a call into the pedi hopefully I'll hear from her tomorrow. Maddox has always been my hardheaded stubborn child he does stuff his own way in his own time. I just don't understand this regression. He is supposed to be starting preschool at the end of the month how can I send him if he is still having accidents daily? Anyone go through this with their older child?
ETA - this is mainly when we are home. If we are out he will tell me when he has to go, very rarely does he have an accident outside of the house, but he is also very shy and I can see him not telling his teacher when he has to go.