Driving me nuts....kinda OT....don't know how to take this.....HELP

[proudmommyof3]

So, I was on the bus earlier and some man sat next to me....I was a little uncomfortable considering there were MANY seats. Anyways, he starts talking to me. He tells me "We don't always get what we want, and it's not for us to understand" or something to that affect. WHAT??? He called it a nugget he wanted to share with me. I don't know what to think. Part of me wonders if it's a way of telling me something or if it was just a man passing on some info. Just weird. Not something a woman who is TTC and ovulating wants to hear......

Maybe he was talking about something else........

Thanks for listening, I am so happy I can come here and share things and not be judged. I know it sounds silly, but I want to get it out of my head, I am convinced he was talking about us not being able to have a baby
I really wish DF would go for an SA....I know I am fine and MAYBE he is, too, but it would be easier to KNOW and possibly fix it or move on to IUI or IVF than keep trying and NOTHING.......

[Lizamay]

Don't read too much into it--I have had so many people say so many weird things to me on public transit!

[Ksears]

That is odd. Did you tell him you were TTC-ing? Or did he just randomly say that to you?

[proudmommyof3]

I didn't say a word to him and he just randomly said that to me. I have been meeting some wack jobs but for some reason this just stuck.....

[mariahpoo2]

It happens from time to time for me too. Some random person just comes up and says something really random but yet very poignant for you. Yeah... I had that happen with this homeless guy once a long while back in my 20s. I forget what he said now, but remember the instance for it's strange nature. The weird thing for me was that he was commenting on a conversation in my head that I was having with myself. Bizarre. At the time I remember thinking that it was the universe (or God) speaking to me through a homeless man's psycho babel.. So I know what you mean. These things can stick and haunt you.

I wouldn't worry about it meaning that you wont fall pg again tho.

[Ksears]

Oh ok. Yea, I am like Mariah...I would have taken it like a sign from God, but...I wouldn't let what he said get to you...I don't know if you are the religious type, but I would just keep praying about it...and I will do the same for you!

[proudmommyof3]

Thanks for sharing your story, Mariah!! That is exactly what I thought....I did pray that God would reveal something to me, but I didn't think it would be that way. Thank you, too, Kelly...I used to be OVERLY religious, but I am not like that anymore, I do believe in God, pray, etc. Thank you for the prayers, I can use all I can get....I am trying so hard to just take it with a grain of salt and see what happens.......

My bestie said he could have meant anything, financial, anything, but it's hard for me to believe because the only thing really consuming my mind is TTC right now....I guess we will know in a couple weeks....

Thank you for all the continued support