Finally finding closure.
I had my D&C follow up appointment today. Basically she asked how I was and if I had any change of heart about not trying any more. Of course I said no but we will re-evaluate in a year or 2. Then she got to the fun part... the genetics. The baby did have a imbalanced trans location and had too many of chromosome 16. I knew that was the case but getting it verified made it all more real. I then asked the question she said not many ask but I am a need to know it all. What was the gender. Well........ it was a boy. We have decided to call him Cameron Michael.
I have went though some rough spells but with out my husband and amazing best friends... well IDK if I would of been strong enough to go to that appointment. I am slowly coming to terms with it all and I am thankful for my little boy every day even when he aggravates me. Thank you ladies for being my rock though all of my journeys.
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I know all of this is hard, but you do have a perfect child who loves you to no end, I'm glad you did go to the appointment and get answers for closure if nothing else, and a wonderful support system is KEY. Many prayers my dear
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