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Hey ladies I wanted to let everyone know im PREGNANT again... :-S PLEASE DONT POST TO FB im not officially telling I just wanted to share w my APA gals.
I dont know what to think. Dh and I were not really wanting anymore babies. Im so not excited. I feel so guilty :-( I just dont have the same emotions I did when I was pregnant w DD. My EDD is March 5.
Im more worried about finances and trying to handle 2 kids. Its hard enough w just DD. I just dont know what to do!
Welcome!!! March is filling up!!
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i guess the reason i feel so guilty is bc... i went into the TTC room just to see how people are doing and came accross the "confess" thread... i cried feeling all of their pain and heartach w TTC.i know everyone are trying so hard and being hurt month after month w no sucess...
and i know i've been given that amazing gift to be a mother again but i'm having the hardest time accepting it! i remember trying for SOOOOOO long w DD.
i remember all the pain i had with TTC. i remember when i got my
and i couldnt wait to tell the WORLD
Is it so wrong i feel this way?
I didnt want to post in TTC (i didnt want to seem like im gloating)
Your not wrong for feeling that way however, Yes those ladies have had alot of heartache TTC but none the less they'd be happy for you! I was going back and forth if I really wanted to try again, and if We did try again it was going to be in Jan after Katrinas 6th birthday, I never expected to be pregnant again. I wasnt even going to tell anyone (but DH) That I was pregnant, but these ladies have been here for me and I just had to tell someone!! Be sure to work through these feelings!!
I am so sorry hun!!! <3 I am glad you are here though
Brea(23) DH(25) We had our miracle baby Jaxon on May 06, 2011! (m/c 3/23/09 m/c 7/18/10 m/c 7/13/12)
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Im starting to feel the excitement... Im feeling it slowly!! I guess its just such a shock! But the thought of holding another baby- my baby... It stirs up the excitement!!
I am so glad that excitement is starting to set in!! Nothing better than holding a little baby that your grew in your belly!! <3 When are you thinking about telling people?
Brea(23) DH(25) We had our miracle baby Jaxon on May 06, 2011! (m/c 3/23/09 m/c 7/18/10 m/c 7/13/12)
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Well FB idk... I have too much drama w FB. Grrr.... But friends probably 14w or when we find out the sex! My mom and dad know.
How bout you?!
idk I keep going back and forth!! I think I am going to tell my mom once I am past four weeks....so maybe this Friday? And I am going to keep it to just my parents, siblings, and close friends until my ultrasound on Aug 2nd and then I might tell everyone. I am a obvious pregnant woman so I can't hide it very long haha I wouldn't even tell my family until Aug 2nd if I wasnt going on vacation with them on the 21st of this month! I think if I have to run to the bathroom to be sick or I am sleeping a lot they will know whats up and be mad that I hadn't told them yet.
Brea(23) DH(25) We had our miracle baby Jaxon on May 06, 2011! (m/c 3/23/09 m/c 7/18/10 m/c 7/13/12)
One of the girls in my last DD room really wants to take some pictures when we meet up in August but idk if people can keep their mouths shut that long! My pregnancy was outted last time via facebook because my entire family has a big mouth!!so we will see. If I can wait to meet up with her, I will announce it around 12-13 weeks to everyone else
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If I start to show ill probably tell sooner!
Contracts!!! I can't believe how many of our Jan 11 mommas have gotten pregnant again!!
I'm a little late to the party here, but a wise man (Mark Twain) once said, "Any emotion, if sincere, is involuntary." So no more guilt for you, mama! You feel how you feel. That said, I'm really happy for you that you're starting to get excited. Your daughter is beautiful!
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Oh thanks!! She is such a blessingOriginally Posted by first_time_at_38
LOVE this!!! <3
Brea(23) DH(25) We had our miracle baby Jaxon on May 06, 2011! (m/c 3/23/09 m/c 7/18/10 m/c 7/13/12)
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