Ugh! It has only been 9 weeks and I am having red spotting. I have also noticed that my supply has dipped a bit- not sure if that is GS related to AF related. I didn't get AF w/ DS1 until 13 months PP. This totally sucks! PLus, I am terrified of getting pg again. DS1 has some serious medical and related behavioral needs, so we know that 2 is all that we can handle. Plus, I am not one of those mothers that can be a good mommy to 2 kids back to back- I just don't have the patience to do that. And the mini-pill caused a dip in my supply w/ DS1 when I used it after he was born so I don't want to go that route. And frankly just using condoms does not feel safe enough for me.
I wanted to wait to have DH get snipped for at least 1 year or so to make absoltely sure that we are certain about only having 2.