Bfn!!! :(

[coelh102]

I was hoping this month would be it! I'm 2 days late for AF and feeling nausea wicked bad today so I ended up testing tonight and it was a negative! Pretty disappointed and depressed about it but I guess I will try again next month, just have to wait for AF to start sometime so we can enter another month. But I'm wondering if taking the test this late, it's 10:30pm, would affect it? Guess I should have just waited till morning so I would know for sure but aw well... it should have shown even a light line if I was preg so I'm sure it's negative. So good luck to all you other ladies! I'm out this month!

[proudmommyof3]

HUGS!!
You are not out, hun. If AF hasn't shown it may just be too early and with ALL my kids I never got a Positive with a PG test with anything but FMU until I was 7 days late. Try FMU or if you want to wait until AF, test then. I know seeing those BFNs are soooo disappointing. Keep your chin up, it could still be it for you....Praying for your BFP....FX for you!!!! HUGS

[Momma39]

Hang in there love...it could have been too early and late at night is never the best.mi will keep crossing for you until AF shows up

[Lunarmoon]

Keeping our FX for you!! KUP It's not over until the bloody Aunt shows!!!

[coelh102]

Thanks for the hugs ladies, I am testing in the morning with FMU this time and if it comes back negative then we will wait until the weekend and give it one last shot. Not sure what else to do lol if AF doesn't show up but the tests are negative then I have no idea what's going on!

[coelh102]

Still a BFN, so waiting until the weekend. I'm sad about this one, guess it's cuz we worked so hard and it amounted to nothing. Past week my sex drive has gone into the negatives as well, don't even want him touching me right now, just think it's pointless to even DTD when I haven't started a new cycle but this one shows no signs of ending. We DTD for 8 days, 3 times a day while on our cruise which was my O weekend so I have no idea why it didn't work but there is nothing I can do now, just wait to start another cycle.

[Lunarmoon]

I would consider waiting till the end of the week and having bloodwork done. That way if it comes up negative they can help you move forward. I hope you get a BFP next time you look!!!!

[coelh102]

So I am still negative, not signs of AF. Still planning on testing this weekend if nothing shows by Monday then I am thinking of making an appt, if anything they can tell me what to do to get my AF to start! No idea what's going on, very confused.

[Jess1979]

Im so sorry... I am right there with you. Keep your chin up. I know its hard... You never know, AF didn't show yet... Hoping for the best for you !

[Lunarmoon]

[Momma39]

It's not over until Flo sings....
FX for you

[coelh102]

Still no AF and we took a FRER test this afternoon with a BFN! So we are testing in the morning just for the heck of it but aren't expecting anything new. Where do I go from here ladies? Not preg but no AF? Should I go to the Docs? Will he be able to tell what's wrong with my AF or do I need to just be patient and wait? I got off BCP 3 months ago but never was this late, I was a few days late last month but the month before that I was on time. It was CD 28 first month, CD 32 last month but now I'm on CD 36 with no signs of it at all.... Very frustrated.

[Lunarmoon]

I would call and see what the doctor suggests. They might be able to get your AF started at the least. I hope you find out your just a late tester and it shows up soon!

[pumpkinpeejays]

Wow that's frustrating! I hope your Doc can shed some light..... hang in there!

[proudmommyof3]

I am sorry you are going through this....I am sure the doctor can help.....stalking so KUP

[coelh102]

Just an update: I have an appt for my ob/gyn on the 13th to check up on things, if I haven't started AF by then and if I have then we will just discuss options to help regulate my AF. I just ordered my first set of OPKs and my DH is very excited that I've let him get more involved in our TTC journey! He never knew it was so complicated, just thought we DTD and we got preg! He has so much to learn!!! You just gotta love men!

However, today, I have a sharp piercing pain around my cervix randomly for the last 4-6hrs, not sure what this is but I also have a huge headache which suggests AF to me because I get these kind of headaches around AF (you know the ones that even 3 tylenols don't manage to touch! GR!!), so crossing my fingers SOMETHING happens!!

[Lunarmoon]

I can totally relate to those headaches, but mine come with the weather. I hope you feel better and everything works out for you soon!!

[breabayne]

I am so sorry! =(

[proudmommyof3]

Hope you feel better and get that BFP very soon.....praying for you....

[mariahpoo2]

Still a BFN, so waiting until the weekend. I'm sad about this one, guess it's cuz we worked so hard and it amounted to nothing. Past week my sex drive has gone into the negatives as well, don't even want him touching me right now, just think it's pointless to even DTD when I haven't started a new cycle but this one shows no signs of ending. We DTD for 8 days, 3 times a day while on our cruise which was my O weekend so I have no idea why it didn't work but there is nothing I can do now, just wait to start another cycle.

DTD that much may be inhibiting sperm production. It sounds weird. I know I thought the more you dtd the better. However optimum BD timing is considered every other day. If dh has super sperm they say its okay for once a day. More then that and it can actually be counter productive.

Just an update: I have an appt for my ob/gyn on the 13th to check up on things, if I haven't started AF by then and if I have then we will just discuss options to help regulate my AF. I just ordered my first set of OPKs and my DH is very excited that I've let him get more involved in our TTC journey! He never knew it was so complicated, just thought we DTD and we got preg! He has so much to learn!!! You just gotta love men!

However, today, I have a sharp piercing pain around my cervix randomly for the last 4-6hrs, not sure what this is but I also have a huge headache which suggests AF to me because I get these kind of headaches around AF (you know the ones that even 3 tylenols don't manage to touch! GR!!), so crossing my fingers SOMETHING happens!!

So cool that your DH wants to be involved! So often we see the opposite when it come to temping and OPKs. They don't want to have anything to do with that stuff. Some even don't want there partners getting into it (I have personal experience there). Of course sometimes it just takes them a little bit to warm up to these tools.

my FX that you get some answers soon! KUP Stalking an update.

[coelh102]

We got our OPK today! Can't wait to use them! We still have the appointment on the 13th and I still haven't seen any changes, no AF and no BFP! So we are still waiting!

[proudmommyof3]

YAY for OPKS Love them!!!!!!! Hope you don't need to use them and you are preggers, but if you are NOT, praying for an awesome appointment and a BFP next cycle....can't wait to see your update, hun!!!!! Will be thinking about you and praying too

[coelh102]

UGHHHHH!!! So I gave into my cravings and took another test this morning and it looked positive so in my excitement I picked it up and ended up dropping it!!!!!!! But I took a photo, what does everyone think??


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[breabayne]

looks POSITIVE to me!!!!!!! are you going to test again in the morning?!?

[Babidol]

I say test again. The line looks to have very little color to me, which could mean an evap. But that could be due to dropping it too.

[breabayne]

I agree!! test again!!!

[coelh102]

Yeah I planned on testing again because of the results being so weird, this pic was taken this morning after I dropped it, I was so mad! Just my luck! But I still have my appt on Friday just in case either way.

[coelh102]

http://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/...my-images79370

[breabayne]

Good deal!! I will be stalking!! I hope you will soon be joining me in March DD!! Good luck tomorrow morning

[Lunarmoon]

http://www.countdowntopregnancy.com/...my-images79370

It's says I'm unauthorized, but the other one I do see the mark, I hope this is it for you!! FX!!