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    Default Bfn!!!!

    Hey ladies! Well we have been testing the last couple of days and only been getting bfn. Ive notice that the EWCM didn't stop until the 18th. So I guess we are out. So we will probably wait top our anniversary to start again.


    Hope all u ladies het your BFP for July!! Baby dust to all!

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    Oh sweetie. Sorry about the bfn. Don't give up!!!

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    So Sorry hun! It will be your turn very soon, don't get discouraged! I haven't tested but am suppose to start today so I might be joining you and hopping off the bandwagon for this month as well. I feel depressed over it but I haven't started but just have a feeling AF will be coming.

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    When is AF due? I hope AF stays away and you see that second line!!
    Took us 20 months to catch our little elf!! Can't wait to meet you! It's a boy!!! to all my TTC friends!

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    Thanks ladies Im trying my best not to give up but its hard when other people get pregnant and they wasnt even trying. I think im going to start temping in july.
    @lunarmoon Af was due yesterday but I have really no symptoms except weird things going on with the tummy and more tired than usual and eating all day. I've notice after the 18th my cm went to creamy stage. I feel like I have some cyst on my ovaries but I really don't know I have a doctor appt July 2nd. I think I will test again Monday.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jjohnson2011 View Post
    Thanks ladies Im trying my best not to give up but its hard when other people get pregnant and they wasnt even trying. I think im going to start temping in july.
    @lunarmoon Af was due yesterday but I have really no symptoms except weird things going on with the tummy and more tired than usual and eating all day. I've notice after the 18th my cm went to creamy stage. I feel like I have some cyst on my ovaries but I really don't know I have a doctor appt July 2nd. I think I will test again Monday.
    Oh hun, you are still IN....it's not over until AF shows....praying she doesn't and you get your beautiful BFP. I HATE BFNs....I'm sorry....hugs. Hang in there and see what happens. I know how you feel....it's so hard. Temping seems to help lots (along with Opks). Honestly, I don't LIKE doing it but I know it gives me a better chance so I do it. Well, this is my first month. Have you tried Pre-Seed? Of course we haven't gotten PG, but this our first month trying it and we LOVE it....if you read the stories....most people get PG on their FIRST month using it. Just keep using those OPKs and temping. Hopefully you won't have to though and you find out in a couple days you are pregnant. FX for your BFP
    Malia(27)Danny(45)Olivia(7)Aiden(4)Kayla(3) 1/2010 7/2010 11/2010 6/2011
    OUR MIRACLE BABY due October 8,2013...SURPRISE BFP JAN 30th one month after deciding to take a TTC break

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    I hope you get some answers then! Still wishing for your BFP then!!
    Took us 20 months to catch our little elf!! Can't wait to meet you! It's a boy!!! to all my TTC friends!

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    Another negative!!! I just want to freakin scream!!! I dont want to try anymore.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jjohnson2011 View Post
    Another negative!!! I just want to freakin scream!!! I dont want to try anymore.
    I'm so sorry sweetie. It's so so hard to see that bfn over and over again. I was going so nuts with it a while back that I just stopped testing if AF wasn't late. So I went a few months that I just got AF thankfully on time and never tested at all. I think I was less disappointed that way. Of course if AF is late for any reason other than pregnancy and you keep testing to a bfn it's miserable too. Finding out you're not when you want to be so bad is just so upsetting no matter how you look at it I think. Don't give up though sweetie! I've been there too and wanted to give up too especially after my m/c but I keep saying the whole thing worse than trying and being disappointed is not trying and knowing I can't be and wondering what could have been. I do know how you feel though. And I hope to see your bfp very soon!
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    Thanks Leah! Im trying my best. Dh want me to test again in the am... I really dont want to but Im going too.
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    You DH must be the complete opposite of mine. Hehe. He's always like "don't test until AF is late or you'll be super depressed!" And then I do it anyway and he never says I told you so but I know he's thinking it. Lol. I'm really pulling for you! Keeping everything crossed that it's just too early for some reason and you get a BFP in the morning.
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    Me too. My fingers,toes and arms are crossed...lol

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    JJ, I'm in the same boat you are, even same days. I was suppose to start AF Saturday and I took a test this morning and its BFN so I'm very depressed and upset, we tried wicked hard this time, don't know how I will muster up the ambition to try another month, probably not nearly as hard as this month.

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    Sending lots of and thoughts your ways girls!!!
    Took us 20 months to catch our little elf!! Can't wait to meet you! It's a boy!!! to all my TTC friends!

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    Ladies do not count yourselves out till the witch shows up, this is fact I had a blood confirmed pg. thru my PCP went to OB 4 days later afternoon appt. urine showed negative and he ordered another beta calls me the next day says yup your pregnant and my response was DUH you need better tests, so my message testing at night early in pregnancy not good idea, do not give up hope. It ain't over till witch starts singing or in our cases flowing.

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    Im trying not to give up. I recieved another negative. I am beginning to get headaches everyday at the same time. Im going to schedule a appt with a obgyn because we now have insurance... YaaY!!

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