Another Loss

[babypayne]

I finally started bleeding this morning. This is my 3rd m/c. Second one in a row. Yesterday when I started spotting, I was ok with knowing it was another loss. But this morning, when the heavy bleeding started, it was like my heart was being ripped out of my chest. I am so sad right now. I guess maybe I did not give myself time to heal physically or emotionally, since losing my little Sam. I have decided for now anyway, to put off TTC for a couple of months. I want to spend the summer with my family and not have any charting stress. I feel like it'll happen when the time is right and right now isn't it.

[Aelith]

I am so, so sorry.

[angmichelle]

I'm so sorry! I had a D&C last Tuesday for my third m/c as well, and I understand your feelings all too well. I think it will be a good thing for you to take a few months off. Many hugs to you during this time and prayers for healing.

[swatty]

Cindy I am so sorry for your loss.

[red2005]

I'm so sorry!

[twinmom34]

I am so sorry for your loss...

[Yellow]

I am so sorry...

[Marquette Fan]

I am so sorry -

[babypayne]

Thanks for the prayers. God knows I need them!

[ALNMommy]

So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

[kellyowens]

...I'm so sorry! Thinking of you!!

[sammilynn]

I am so sorry. I wish this didn't happen to any one. just know I am stalking to see your sticky bean.

[Smplyme89]

Cindy I am so sorry mama. I wish there was more I could do than offer

[Woogelaide]

I'm so sorry. I know how unfair it is, and I wish it hadn't happened to you.

[babypayne]

Thanks y'all. I am torn as to what to do. I know I have said I was going to wait a few months to TTC again. But then I think about my last chemical and how I got pg right after it and went onto have DD. I don't know what to do. :/ What would y'all do if you were me?

[Marquette Fan]

Thanks y'all. I am torn as to what to do. I know I have said I was going to wait a few months to TTC again. But then I think about my last chemical and how I got pg right after it and went onto have DD. I don't know what to do. :/ What would y'all do if you were me?

If you think waiting a few months to TTC might help you mentally, I would wait.

My situation wasn't the same but I also started TTC shortly after my ds passed away. For me, I knew getting pregnant 3 months after he died or 3 years after he died was going to be challenging - the timing wasn't going to make a huge difference for me. I did have one chemical pregnancy in 2010 and 2 failed IUI's and a failed IVF. I ended up getting pregnant with Natalie pretty much exactly 2 years after I had been pregnant with Tyler (due date was within 3 days - two years apart). And I don't think that it was any easier for me b/c additional time had passed (I had wanted to be pregnant sooner).

But that's me and things may be totally different for you.

[babypayne]

I am like you. I feel like getting pg right away is the best thing for me emotionally. I am so ready to hold and love another precious baby. But then, there's always that chance of m/c again and I start second guessing myself. I will pray about it and ask God to lead me in the right direction. If its meant for me to be blessed with another baby, I will be.

[kellyowens]

The times my body recovered well I tried again right away. (((HUGS)))...praying for you!

[tyvek]

I am so very sorry for your loss. M/C suck!!!! I just wanted to respond about the timing of TTC. I had my second M/C and then I ended up, very unexpectedly, pregnant again 5 weeks later. I am sitting here at 30-ish weeks pregnant and I still feel like I might not be taking home a baby. Having that much hurt mixed with the joy of a new baby was a very weird combo for me. For me I think having a bit of time inbetween the m/c and pregnancy would have helped heal my soul a bit and I might have been able to enjoy this pregnancy a bit more. But I totally 100% understand the urge to get right back on the horse. I hope the answer comes to you. Many, many hugs!