I just got a letter in the mail from MCIR (Michigan Care Improvement Registry) informing me my son is due for his 4yr immunizations and physical...not a big deal...BUT it's under DS's *birth name* and has his birth mom's/gma's home address !! The kicker...it was addressed to me and sent to my home address which *should not* be linked to his birth name or his family's address *at all* . Funny thing...he never lived at the address listed...his bmom left him at the hospital and he went immediately to a foster home where he stayed until we adopted him. His bmom only had 2 half hour supervised visits with him at DHS (they tried repeatedly to contact her but she never showed up).
About a year ago I was told by his former foster mom that his birth mom was looking for him and wants him back (had someone calling DHS for her). I was reassured there was no way she could tie in his old name with me since he was reissued a new birth certificate and SSN...yeah well, if these people can find me, I'm sure someone else can too !
I'm not comfortable with this at this point in time. Devin has been with us for almost 3yrs...he was placed when he was 22months old. He knows he's adopted, we have a great relationship with his fmom, but I do not want contact with bmom right now.
Should I call DHS and talk with his former case worker, should I call my adoption agency, should I call MCIR??? I really am not sure which direction to pursue...any thoughts?? I'll probably end up calling them all...I am *not* happy!
Oh, for the record, DS *did* have his physical and pokes but it was under his adopted name.