Remy next year will be going to an "at risk" preschool, mostly for his speech but also because of what I am going through with his behaviour. These problems I've been having basically since I opened my in home daycare, a little over a year ago. HE IS A TERROR. He is mean to the children, pushes them, hits, and does not share well AT ALL. I feel bad for them. They normally just run away from him, but they shouldn't have to! They should feel safe here! And now that Seren is getting bigger he tries to do the same to her. Not hit her, thankfully, but he'll push her away from his toys, sometimes causing her to bonk her head. I am seriously at my wits end with this. I have tried separating him, but he doesn't like that. I have tried helicoptering him, and that works fine for a while but he will still do it when I am right there. I have lately been losing it out of frustration. Yelling and spanking. I hate hate hate that side of myself, but like I said, I am just SO SO SO fed up with it. You know, mama bear has to protect her cub. I have basically just stopped putting her anywhere near him, but that's not fair to her since she is just exploring. Normal baby stuff. There has got to be a better way. Help?