First off, I'm male. I'm asking here because I don't know where else to ask aside from the first site that popped up in an internet search. I'm 17, and so is my girlfriend. We do want kids, but certainly not for a much longer time from now. We've been together for 3 years and today was the first time we've both had sex (not just with each other, but ever). Unfortunately, we did something very stupid, we did not use contraceptives. We didn't have any and we were only going to try it out. The main problem is we were in the shower, so everything was already wet, and I'm unsure if I pre-ejaculated. I've been in cold sweats ever since. My girlfriend keeps saying she doesn't believe so, but how could one know if we were already wet? Aside from this, she had complications with her ovaries last year and the doctor told her that her getting pregnant would be unlikely, if at all possible. I don't wanna exploit her medical history, but I'm just saying this because I'm about 60% sure I didn't pre-ejaculate, and it would already be rare for her to have a kid. I believe they were ovarian cysts. What are the chances, you think? I'm very nervous and scared and wanna hear straight out, please.