HELP....Ovulation is killing me....

[proudmommyof3]

I can't get out to get OPKs until later or tomorrow and I am having signs but they don't all add up. Like I have fertile CM but I am completely closed, although when I can get my finger in there, my cervix is high. Saturday I had ALL signs and even a little bit of spotting (and I read you can have ovulation spotting) but I am still thinking it was way too early. None the less we DTD that night and the next morning, so IF I did O...I am covered. I read today that you should take your shortest cycle and subtract by 10 and that is the day you SHOULD ovulate and low and behold it was right for last month (but on CD20) I am USUALLY a 31 day cycle, but one month was 30, one 34, and last months was 37 . So if it is CD20 I still have time to get some OPKs. I am sticking to my method of madness and DTD tonight, Friday, and every other day for as long as it doesn't become a chore. I know I shouldn't be this obsessed and I'm sorry, I'm just excited to see if it's possible this month and want to do all I can to make it possible...

Thanks for listening and once again for the advice and tips to help

[Lunarmoon]

I can't remember, are you temping? That can help pinpoint ovulation as well. DTD every other day is a great way to ensure you catch the day!!! Have fun and good luck!!!

[Babidol]

I had EWCM 3 days before i got my pksitive OPK. You may have time!!!

[proudmommyof3]

Thanks girls. I feel like I am asking the same questions over and over again. I guess I just have so many emotions and I want to ttc full force and KNOW that we did all we could. After 6 months of no luck (and I hope and pray it doesn't get that far) we can see an RE because of our history. I want to temp, but the last go around DBF thought it was too much ( I was going overboard). I do go back to sleep when he leaves for work but because I woke up and then when back to sleep would my temp be accurate? Thank you for telling me your experience of having EWCM 3 days before O. I don't want to get discouraged...it's been fun thus far, but tonight I feel like it will be a "chore" because DBF is not in the mood so I am thinking about skipping tonight. Thanks again for the input ladies

[Songbird_kay]

if you keep BDIng every other day or so you'll be covered no matter what, so just have some fun and get busy

[proudmommyof3]

if you keep BDIng every other day or so you'll be covered no matter what, so just have some fun and get busy

Thanks Robin!!!! In case I haven't already told you....CONGRATS on your pregnancy....I am over the moon happy for you!!!!!! We didn't DTD last night like I wanted to and I am almost sure I did O (O day) is today. Am I too late??? He was tired and stressed but he seems much better today so I hope tonight is the night ;-)