Well, Dh and I decided that we aren't going to actively TTC but just not use protection. My ob told us we could go-ahead and TTC but my re advised us to wait longer so I could heal more emotionally . I know in my heart I'm ready so we will see what happens. I got a positive opk yesterday and it's neg today. We bd today, so all I can do is sit and wait. I had thought before I would wait like my re said to do but I want to be pg before my due date. I think it will help me get through that day easier . Please pray I'm doing the right thing and get pg and go on to have a healthy baby. :-) I pray daily for you all to get your sweet baby's you so deserve.