DH and I agreed on both boy and girl names before we found out the gender (boy). We haven't wavered on the girl name (our just-in-case-he-becomes-a-she) but DH mentioned changing the middle name for boy the other week. I can't decide which version I like better.
The middle name is for my grandfather who went by both his full name and the nickname so both would honor his memory. Which flows best though?