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    Default I need advice im scared

    My last period was feb 12th i was with my boyfriend somewhere around the 20th thru the 24th he did finish inside me we had been trying to get pregnant for the past 7 months but nothing we had an argument and broke up i was talking to my ex cuz we have a baby together so i took him my son so he could see him we talked went out to eat n headed home when we got to the house we talked cuz he wanted to get back with me i said no i honestly still love my fiance anyways long story short i had sex with my ex on the 26th but he pulled out is there a possibility that the baby im having is my ex's and not my fiances?? please help to top it off my fiance told me he had a dream that after the baby was born he found out the baby wasen't his i hope this dream didn't mean anything plz help i am so scared i dnt want to lose my family i know i made a huge mistake

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    with have sex so close it could be eather of them if you want to know you will need to get the baby and both men test pre cum can get you pregnant
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    What?? are u serious my friend did tell me that buti didn't want to believe it omg what am i gonna do im in serious trouble now i cnt sleep of just thinking of my stupid mistake

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    It is definitely possible that the baby is from your ex and not your fiance. The fact that you slept with both of them on the same week (or even month) means that either one can be the father of your baby. The only way to find out for sure is to do a paternity test.

    Does your fiance know that you slept with your ex?
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    i would say it is MORE likely that it's your fiance's since he did ejaculate in you, so the odds would be with his swimmers, but it totally depends on when you ovulated and which sperm made it to the egg. Have you had an ultrasound yet?

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    i am now 12 weeks i ovulated around that week that's what i am guessing and no not yet till the 14th i get a sono done i knw this baby is my fiances i have a good feeling it is there is no way it could be my ex hells no

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    Find out the exact time u ovulated then see who was the closes to ur ovulation date!! But i could tell u that its probably ur fiancee!! Cuz u said dat ur ex didnt came on u!! Congratz

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    It is possible for either to be the father but more likely to be your fiance's baby.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lillismom View Post
    It is definitely possible that the baby is from your ex and not your fiance. The fact that you slept with both of them on the same week (or even month) means that either one can be the father of your baby. The only way to find out for sure is to do a paternity test.

    Does your fiance know that you slept with your ex?
    This. Definitely.
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