dh thinks that Q should already be potty trained. that since he was able to use the potty when he was 14 ish months old he should be fully trained now and that its my fault for not continuing to put ds on the potty back then (he had quit going on the potty, and would only play on it so i stopped frustrating myself by trying to get him to sit still on the potty and go)
dh has a way with words that makes me feel like i am failing at potty training my son but i don't see the need for it yet. while i would love to have him put of diapers i don't think i want to deal with the frustration of trying to train a child that does not want to be trained.
ds has most if not all of the signs of being ready (except for the telling me before he goes. he only tells me when he has pooed not when he wets) so i don't think he is ready. but dh is really pushing it and even telling me that i am a bad mother for not even trying to train ds yet. ( i mean come on.. he is only going to be 22 months...)
so am i crazy for not even bothering yet or should i follow dh's desire and push ds to potty train?