Hey guys! I would really appreciate you input...but, please only comments that are constructive. I know what I did was wrong & don't need to be lectured & I don't plan on doing it again. I'm an almost 21-year-old college student & I kind of met someone on spring break & we ended up messing around & he ended up getting the tip in (that's the farthest I've gone) & I'm almost positive he didn't ejaculate (yes, I now know about pre-cum, though)...& we didn't use any protection (I wasn't exactly planning for it to go as far as it did & I didn't think about it...stupid, I know...you don't need to tell me--I already feel like a horrible person).
Anyway...that was on the morning of the 17th & I was supposed to get my period around the 19th. It's now the 24th & I'm kind of freaking out. It's normal for me to be a couple days late & I usually vary from cycle to cycle (March-April 2011: 37, each cycle after that until now: 34, 20, 29, 24, 28, 31, 25, 25, 29, 29---& now this one is going on 36 days) but it's been a year since it's been this long of a cycle.
I'm almost positive my ovulation was during the week of the 5th because I had brown spotting for about three days. I've done some research & I've seen that the egg can only live for so many hours...so, it would make sense that it would be dead & I couldn't get pregnant. I know the sperm can survive almost a week, but the messing around happened a week & a half or so after ovulation.
I could just be freaking out & the stress could be delaying it, but I'm just really not sure what to think right now. I'm thinking of the worst potential outcome (I could not deal with having a kid right now...I am super involved & there is so much I have planned before I settle down....plus, I'm joining the Navy. Again--I know this is my fault & it shouldn't of happened & I've learned my lesson, so please don't lecture me; I know I made a stupid mistake) but if you guys have any thoughts if you have experience with this sort of situation, I would greatly appreciate it!!!
Thanks a bunch!! <3