I need help BAD!!!
Okay, im 15 and my boyfriend is 19 and recently we had unprotected sex. He made a mistake and didnt pull out when he came. I didnt think much of my stomach hurting afterward. But its been two days straight that its been hurting. I know its not in my head because he didnt tell me until after my stomach was hurting. It feels like cramps but im not shedualled to start my period for two more weeks. Im really scared that i might be pregnant.
Well to be honest there's no way to know for sure until your actually late for your period. From the sounds of it...I think it's very possible you are. If your expecting your period in 2 weeks and had sex in these past couple of days then you were probably ovulating. You and your boyfriend should talk about the possibility of you being pregnant. If your period does come in two weeks than you should def. use some type of birth control to avoid getting pregnant before your ready. I had my daughter at 16 and she is now 12 years old. I know this is very scary but it isn't the end of the world...I've been single mother and raised her all by my self so it's possible. Difficult but possible....Wishing you the best of luck!
Thank you so much for that information! Im still really worried and in pain. And yes i think i was ovulating i completely forgot i ovulate around the middle of the month. But are watery cm and contsipation signs too?
You're probably having ovulation cramps. It's much too early to have any pregnancy symptoms. However, this doesn't mean u r not pregnant. The only way to know for sure is to take a home pregnancy test when ur period is due. I also recommend getting on Birthcontrol or using condoms if u r not wanting to become pregnant.
Also, if u would get pregnant ur boyfriend could be charged with statutory rape. I would definitely recommend that u and ur adult boyfriend think twice about what u both r doing.
Last edited by College_Girl_14305; 03-20-2012 at 11:48 AM.
Yep. All of this. You normally ovulate about 2 weeks before your period is due, which is the optimal time to get pregnant. Which, you are in that window now. It is very likely you will end up pregnant, but for your and his sake, I hope you're not. And remember, as the above posted said, he is an adult, you are a minor. Even if *you* do not press charges on him/turn him in, your parents could, or any other number of people who know that he is the "father."
Originally Posted by College_Girl_14305
If it turns out you are not pregnant. You really, REALLY need to get on some birth control. Call planned parenthood, as far as I remember they don't need parental permission to give birth control. (Though I could be remembering wrong it's been a while)
I've answered your other 2 threads with the same situation. I really hope things work out for you. Birth control is definitely the next step.
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I'm sorry you're going thru this and agree with everything said above.
Pull out method isn't a good form of birth control - even if he does pull out - you're kind of lucky you haven't gotten pregnant yet. You need to get on some birth control if you aren't pregnant this month.
And unfortunately, there's no way to know for two more weeks - in the meantime try to relax. If you are pregnant, you won't feel anything until right around when your period is due - you wouldn't be feeling anything now so the pains are probably connected to ovulation and not actual pregnancy. remember that early pregnancy symptoms are easy to talk yourself into so it's easy to convince yourself that you are pregnant when you're not. However, I agree with one of the first posts - you two need to sit down and have a serious conversation because there is a good chance you are pregnant....
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