I am new to this but I have been reading forums and other literature I can find for weeks now. I am 23, and my fiance has been in Afghanistan for over two years. We are not TTC. However, we aren't preventing it either. My AF is like clock work. The 7th-13th of the month. Dec 7th is the last time it came. My Fiance came home for his vacation from work on Dec 23rd, which is one of the days i Ovulate. Since then, I have missed my Jan and Feb AF. I have the most nagging pains in my abdomen...back pains, headaches, but i've taken about 6 preg tests, all negative, went to the doctor, had a blood and urine test, an ultrasound and a vaginal sonogram and nothing. They said " i just have a stomach ache". I've never felt all this before, at least not all at once. Now i can't sleep. I usually sleep on my stomach, but it hurts when i do now, can't sleep on my sides because it's uncomfortable....and im KNOWN for falling out in any position. LOL anywho, I have to sleep on a mountain of pillows just to fall asleep. I don't know if im going crazy or there is something more serious going on, I need some help. I there anyone who had a baby, even when a doctor, told you that you weren't pregnant?