Hmm should I be optimistic

[MissAlexandra]

Hey girls, here's my symptoms let me know if you think there's anything for me to be optimistic about

Last af started Friday the 13th and ended the 17.. Hubby and I bd'd the 17 thru the 1st..morning and nights. Never got a positive opk but cervical position and cm make me think I o'd the 27.. Bloating and cramping from the 27-30 then have had bouts of sick hotness, headaches, getting up most nights to pee, thirsty,cervix very high closed and very soft, mild cramping and I guess my biggest symptom is I'm very pissy and cranky and now I feel like I'm coming down with a cold, tested yesterday and bfn.. Should I be hopeful?

[monic12]

Hey girls, here's my symptoms let me know if you think there's anything for me to be optimistic about

Last af started Friday the 13th and ended the 17.. Hubby and I bd'd the 17 thru the 1st..morning and nights. Never got a positive opk but cervical position and cm make me think I o'd the 27.. Bloating and cramping from the 27-30 then have had bouts of sick hotness, headaches, getting up most nights to pee, thirsty,cervix very high closed and very soft, mild cramping and I guess my biggest symptom is I'm very pissy and cranky and now I feel like I'm coming down with a cold, tested yesterday and bfn.. Should I be hopeful?

Ur symptoms sound like pregnancy symptoms or it may be in your head!! U might had tested early. When is ur af due!??

[MissAlexandra]

Due between the 9th and 13th at the latest...think my cervix is dropping,usually bad right? want to cry and drink heavily but ill try to hold out til af shows :/

[Adhafera]

Best of luck Alexandra! Try not to lose hope, its not over til AF shows!

[BabyLove1]

Due between the 9th and 13th at the latest...think my cervix is dropping,usually bad right? want to cry and drink heavily but ill try to hold out til af shows :/

Not over yet....your cervix raises at different times for each pregnancy so it dropping isn't necessarily a bad sign. However if you think you might be pregnant you should STOP touching your cervix so you don't introduce bacteria. That being said, I know how hard it is during the 2ww (had to TTC for a little while with both of my DDs) but just try to relax as much as you can.

[MissAlexandra]

Pink cm..guess Af if coming.... im...its been 17 months of trying for nummber 2.. After the 2nd misscarriage in dec. We agreed this was the last attempt then no more trying for a year...

[BabyLove1]

Pink cm..guess Af if coming.... im...its been 17 months of trying for nummber 2.. After the 2nd misscarriage in dec. We agreed this was the last attempt then no more trying for a year...

HUGS! I'm sorry!

Just wanted to say that it happens to LOTS of people when they stop trying and just relax about it. So hopefully it will be that way for you!

[monic12]

U should test wen af is due.!! It might just be the last period ull have sometimes it happends like dat! Good luck

[Butterflygirl]

I always go to the side of Optimism no matter what

[MissAlexandra]

i would say that my chances are pretty crappy.. I took a cheepie test and got a faint line.. but I am starting to cramp more and pretty sure AF will be coming full wrath in a couple days...i just keep clinging to that one percent chance.. guess it wasnt meant to be this month

[MissAlexandra]

HUGS! I'm sorry!

Just wanted to say that it happens to LOTS of people when they stop trying and just relax about it. So hopefully it will be that way for you!

thats what my doctor said too.. in fact he said " done trying? HAHA you'll be pregnant soon after that always happens"

[BabyLove1]

Um even a faint line on a cheap test is a line... I'd take another one if I were you.... Good luck!

[monic12]

Um even a faint line on a cheap test is a line... I'd take another one if I were you.... Good luck!

i agree. It took me 8 test to believe i was pregnant but all were postive and the line was very dark! Nd i took 3 cheap test from dollar tree and it came out positive. I said test again like baby love 1 said!! Goodluck

[Rae_1478]

Um even a faint line on a cheap test is a line... I'd take another one if I were you.... Good luck!

This! The packages say, any line (within the specified timeframe) means a positive result. It doesn't matter how dark the line is.

[MissAlexandra]

ill try again tomorrow but if its lighter than todays....and not darker then i guess that means the hcg is clearing out of my system

[BabyLove1]

ill try again tomorrow but if its lighter than todays....and not darker then i guess that means the hcg is clearing out of my system

Not necessarily - unless you use the exact same type of test and test at the exact same time - and even then it could be different. If you want to know for sure, get a blood test from the doc so they can tell you a quantitative number.

[MissAlexandra]

Im out..af came today with a vengance....will be curled up on the couch chomping down tylenols for the next week

[Adhafera]

I'm so sorry hun! Best of luck next cycle!