i don't know if to freak out or not....what do you think?

[lilo1225]

Okay lovely ladies… I need opinions.. what do you think. I have kind of tracking my cycles and for a while there they were really consistent. Cycles would last 32 days and I would get ewcm on about CD 17 or 18 and on 15dpo (or what I called dpo based on ewcm) I would get my period. It was like that for a few months and then I would get ewcm but still get AF on time .. then I would get ewcm really late for instance on cd 28… and it started wacking out. This month I got ewcm on the 1st and 2nd of January and I am due for af today. Well, Thursday the 5th I started noticing that when I wiped I’d get brown on tp but nothing on my panties. It was like that until Sunday that I got a gush and though o I got AF but it was that gush and maybe one more and that was it.. no consistent flow… I have been like that since Sunday.. a few gushes a day but no flow.. but at night I put on a new pad and I wake up and it’s clean in the morning…. During the day is when I get one or two gushes and that is it… but I don’t consider it spotting nor a consistent flow.. spotting to me are a few spots on the pad.. and I get one or two gushes…. I am afraid it’s pregnancy.. I am going to buy an hpt tonight.. but… any thoughts… and yes, we did bd a lot this month… I know the only way to know for sure is testing… but what do you say big chance of pg or more on the slim side..

[mother of seven]

testing is the first step but it could be implantion bleeding in that case you need to wait three to four days after the bleeding started

[Adhafera]

Anything is possible, I would just get a test. Best of luck!

[lilo1225]

I took an hpt yesterday and it was bfn. It’s been seven days since I started spotting. No cramps…no soreness… nothing but spotting, well, spotting since Thursday because from Sunday till now I don’t know what to call it because it’s more than spotting but less than a regular flow. I don't even know if i am making any sense at all... This has never happened to me… it isn’t regular or normal for me to spot before af.. I have never had spotting before not even with the pregnancy of the twinkies…this is the first time… but i do know it's normal to spot before your period but this long?? I will take another hpt in a few days if it continues.. but when would it be too long that I would call the doctor and get advice if I keep going like this w/ bfn and no regular flow near. Is now too long? I mean i literally feel no pms sings like soreness or cramps... i don't feel like i am gonna get it anytime soon... Don’t know what to do… I don’t’ want to feel stupid w/ my doctor… argh! Sorry u guys! I didn’t know where else to post or who to go to.

[Adhafera]

I think the rule of thumb is 60 days (like, CD 60) with no AF and no BFP; but if you want to go to the doctor earlier than that, then go. Stressing can totally mess with your cycle too. Hang in there hun!